By Bruce Barbour
Version 1 - February 2016
Suggested Reading
1. The Happiness Trap, Dr Russ Harris - this is
an excellent book that teaches techniques of handling
negative Self Thought, through recognising it for what it
is and making room for the Thoughts without getting
involved in them. It also proposes a values based
lifestyle.
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Other Books
2. Get Out of Your Mind & Into Your Life, Dr
Steve Hayes with Spencer Smith. Steven Hayes is the
originator of ACT. This book is written for the general
public however I found it to be a more technical book than
the "Happiness Trap". He has also written (or co-written)
many other books (at least 32!) including "Acceptance and
Commitment Therapy" which is a lot more academic treatment
of ACT - I wouldn't recommend it for the general reader.
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3. The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle - an
interesting book in which Tolle proposes minimising
thought processes (he doesn't differentiate between Self
Thought and other thought) and living solely in the
present moment. It is an Awareness / mindfulness based
approach; however he goes a lot further than what I do. He
sees thought as a disease that needs to be eliminated as
much as possible. In my opinion this is extreme, in that
it discounts the value of much of human endeavour, past
and present, and is a case of throwing out the baby with
the bath water. My other problem with it is that while he
mentions compassion and love he fails to fully articulate
how one should live ethically - how one should treat
others. Also see "Stillness Speaks" by same author.
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4. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Susan Jeffers
- This is quite an old book now (1987). The author
suggests the extensive use of positive affirmations.
However she admits that even with the positive affirmation
that fear is still going to be present and suggests "doing
it anyway" (an ACT approach!). Seems to show the
difficulty with relying on positive affirmations to drown
out negative thoughts. Still it is an interesting book.
Suggests some useful ways of thinking about
decision-making and change.
Web based resources:
5. An Awakened Life, Christopher Titmuss -
provides a Buddhist perspective. Combines a lot of short
interesting articles.
Web based resources:
6. Authentic Happiness, Martin Seligman. The
author is one of the most widely recognised experts on
happiness and has written a number of "self help" books on
the subject as well as academic papers. He teaches
techniques for learned optimism which, he claims, are
largely based on the latest developments in research. Some
of the techniques are similar to what is suggested in this
site, although the terminology is quite different. An
interesting read aimed at the layman.
Web based resources:
Other Websites
7. Wikipedia
Entry on Happiness
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